Tuesday, January 06, 2009

LESSON LEARNED:

when a guy are you are flirting with, dating or just met tells you he's

trouble
messed in the head
dangerous
or not a good guy

very quietly turn, walk out the door and then break into a full sprint without ever looking back. or in other words-- believe him when he says these things.

it's not cute, endearing, a way for you to 'help' him and it most certainly does not mean that you understand him better than anyone.

you will save yourself a whole heck of a lot of grief, frustration, embarrassing moments, irritation, awkward conversations, tears and/or possible heart ache.

the end. next.

3 comments:

Allison Claire said...

I learned this lesson the hard way, the very hard way.

Lady Bills said...

i unfortunately have had to learn this lesson not one but SEVERAL times!!

but i am proud to say that i walked away quickly with this most recent dude and that makes me happy! :)

see- i AM capable of learning!!

Reggs said...

OOOO great advice, Peggers. Also when they say, "I want to retire by the time I'm 40, and I am using the Idaho lottery to accomplish that."
Run from that, too.

P.S. I LOVED your description of your room. LOL!! PURPLE SPONGE PAINT?? Who does that?
Also, I am freaking jealous of whoever got the life sized Edward for Christmas.